How we grow
It takes a little while before we can walk, and it takes that long before we can talk. One of these little miracles might happen before the other and the rest quickly follows. It is all worth it, all incredible and all part of nature. A lesson that is very valuable as we go through life; is that while we are still young and going through our growing years we learn to take little steps, long before the big ones can be taken. Or before they are even thought about. We may stumble, we may fall; we may graze ourselves and yet we move on. It is all worth it, we know we are alive. Often we can not start growing until we have experienced these things. They are just products of a life that we all grow into. And as such have their own place like the stars that shine or the moon that glows. They enable us to get to the starting gate and carry on. Because, in the early years of our development we receive a lot of encouragement and love we will move ahead with courage and a lot of certainty. These are the early years, the years of trust. As we grow and settle we start communicating in our own way. The wants and needs of the children must be guaranteed. Then comes the school years, we are out of the nest and expected to learn. There are expectations to be met and the lessons are set. Different people have different needs and these needs have to be explored. Some learn at a rapid pace and seem to have no problems. Others seem to just get by and are thought to be difficult. There is nothing wrong with not being brilliant in everything you do. We have the same set of demands placed upon us. Some will shine while others will pale in comparison. Such is life, we move on with the tools we have. We are now reaching the competitive age, the teenage years. The years where feelings are easily confused. And often life’s lessons get in the way or get disregarded. We are now young adults and so take another step toward our future. We all get to choose the kind of life we want to enjoy. For most it is a job, a steady income overseas trips and buying your first home. With marriage somewhere in between. This is just life. It may not be yours, or indeed mine. But it may be theirs. Whatever you do with your life, whatever you have; you are born into it so make the most of it. This is it, you can not turn back the clock once the cycle is in motion. Be happy with what you have created, it is unique. If you play the scene right, you will have it all. And there is no way but the right way. Your destiny, the scenery and the image are all under way. Do not stray from your destiny.